Question by Chomori Amu: How to take focus in relationship off of sex? ?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now. About a month ago we finally gave into temptation and had sex. Right after we finished we started crying and asked for forgiveness then prayed for hours. He asked me to marry him because he thought it was the right thing to do since God says that sex is for married couples only. A couple weeks later we realized we didnt really get anything out of it the first time (we were both virgins to start out with) so we did it again. We both enjoyed it but we had far more guilt then before. Again we repented and prayed. My bf said that since we were engaged that it was okay but later we realized that it is still sinful and wrong. Today he asked me if wed do it "just one more time" (I said no because of the following reason) but Im afraid it will always be "just ONE more time." Do you think its already too late to turn away from sex until marriage again? Is there anything youd reccommend to get our minds and bodies to stop wanting sex so badly? Its just so tempting... We are both strong Christians and known that premarital sex is wrong so if you could incorporate God or prayer in your advice, Id much appreciate it. Any good advice is welcome!




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Answer by No love lost, No love found.
Just don't kiss too much. Do things that might turn your fiance off.

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